Imaging staff rallies to support cancer patient and her family
![Margaret Rockafellow, center, is surrounded by just some of the many “angels,” as she calls them, who she and her family have encountered at WellSpan.]() |
Margaret Rockafellow, center, is surrounded by just some of the many “angels,” as she calls them, who she and her family have encountered at WellSpan. First row, left to right, Diane Emler, Jill Bryant, Dr. Joanne Trapeni and Nancy Wright. Back row, left to right, Diane McElwain, Deanna Owens, Dyann Tozlu and Diane Seitz. Through donations from the Imaging Center staff and the Cancer Patient Help Fund, the Rockafellows are navigating through some rocky times. |
Margaret Rockafellow describes her experience at WellSpan as being “surrounded by angels.”
Rockafellow is being treated for breast cancer. That, however, is just one of the many obstacles she, her husband and three daughters are trying to overcome. A series of unfortunate events, including Hurricane Sandy, left Roy Rockafellow unemployed and the family’s savings depleted.
While living in California, Margaret felt a lump in her breast but she did not visit a physician because of the lack of money. The family then moved to New Jersey and to Maryland, following Hurricane Sandy. All the while, the lump was growing.
Seeking a mammogram, the Rockafellows visited three hospitals in Maryland, but were turned away because of their inability to pay.
In January, they moved to southern York County and Margaret visited WellSpan’s Chanceford Family Medicine. Dr. Carl Brango said, “We can take care of this,” and referred her to the WellSpan Imaging Center on the Apple Hill Health Campus for an urgent mammogram.
Following the mammogram, three sites from her breast were biopsied. Margaret was diagnosed with breast cancer and referred to the WellSpan York Cancer Center for treatment.
While Margaret prepared to receive chemotherapy treatments, the family was struggling desperately to make ends meet. They had sold almost everything they had—their truck, furniture and even Roy’s tools that he used for his job—to pay the rent.
Peggy Tilton, financial counselor at the York Cancer Center, and Diane McElwain, oncology coordinator, worked with the family to access the Cancer Patient Help Fund.
Funds were used to pay the family’s rent, utilities and to purchase gas cards to be used to help them travel back and forth to the York Cancer Center. The family also received food from the food pantry.
Staff members rally to assist the family
As the plight of the Rockafellow family became known throughout the WellSpan Imaging Center, staff members rallied to assist the family.
“Staff members donated clothes, shoes, gift cards, cleaning supplies, toiletries and whatever the family needed.” Joanne Trapeni, D.O., radiologist at the WellSpan Imaging Center, said. “Staff members from throughout Imaging contributed. The outpouring was unbelievable.
"A staff member whose husband is unemployed insisted that I take a monetary donation. Families with their own hardships have been touched by the Rockafellows.
“I’ve never been prouder to work for WellSpan,” she stressed. “The outpouring of kindness has been amazing. The Imaging Center has put its arms around this family.”
Tilton added, “The Rockafellows didn’t expect anything, and they didn’t ask for anything. They are a very humble and grateful family. The circle of caring has been unbelievable.”
Margaret said, “I can’t believe how much help we’ve received, and how nice everyone has been to us. It’s been overwhelming.
“People at WellSpan don’t just care about me, they care about my family. Receiving the diagnosis of breast cancer has, in a way, been a blessing.”
One of the most touching moments came when McElwain heard that the Rockafellows had pawned their wedding rings. She was working on a way to get the rings from the pawn shop in time for Valentine’s Day. When Trapeni heard about the situation, she enlisted the help of Drs. Thomas Bauer, James Lockard and Howard Goldberg.
The four of them contributed the money required to secure the rings, and have enough for the Rockafellows to go out for a special dinner. Roy presented the wedding rings to Margaret as a surprise on Valentine’s Day. Tears and happiness abounded.
“It was just unbelievable,” said Margaret. “I never thought we would ever get our wedding rings back.”
A lot of good things happen when you’re surrounded by angels.